One of the dangers of tobacco is that it is so
addicting. It causes a physical response in your body when you try to give it
up. Therefore, quitting is often difficult. However, with the help of Allah and
the personal commitment to improve yourself for the sake of Allah, and for your
own health, it is possible.
Make Your Intention
It is first recommended to make the firm intention, from
deep in your heart, to give up this evil habit. Trust in Allah's words:
"...When you have taken a decision, put your trust in Allah. For Allah
loves those who put their trust in Him. If Allah helps you, none can overcome
you; if He forsakes you, who is it - after that - that can help you? In Allah,
then, let believers put their trust" (Qur'an 3:159-160).
Change Your Habits
Secondly, you must avoid situations where you are used to
smoking, and people who do so around you. For example, if you have certain
friends who gather together to smoke, make a choice to stay away from that
environment for the time being. At a vulnerable stage, it is too easy to
relapse by having "just one." Remember, tobacco causes a physical
addiction and you must stay away completely.
Find Alternatives
Thirdly, drink a lot of water and keep yourself busy in
other endeavours. Spend time in the mosque. Play sports. Pray. Spend time with
your family and non-smoking friends. And remember the words of Allah: "And
those who strive hard in Our Cause, We will certainly guide them to Our Paths,
for verily Allah is with those who do right” (Qur'an 29:69).
If You Live With a Smoker
If you live with or are friends with smokers, first of
all encourage them to quit, for the sake of Allah, their health, and their deen.
Share with them the information here, and offer support through the difficult
process of quitting.
>> Remember that we will each face Allah alone, however, and we
are responsible for our own choices. If they refuse to quit, you have the right
to protect your own health and the health of your family. Do not allow it in
the house. Do not allow it in enclosed quarters with your family <<
If the smoker is a parent or other elder, we should not
neglect to take care of our health out of "respect." The Qur'an is
clear that we are not to obey our parents in things which are forbidden by
Allah. Gently, but firmly, advise them of the reasons for your own choices.
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